I used to think that women were the biggest culprits of this; in general we are more likely to become emotionally attached after sleeping with someone than the opposite sex. However, as of late, my girlfriends and I have noticed that more men are making the assumption that a night of amazing sex automatically signifies the beginning of the dating process.
Women have evolved; the majority of us are beginning to ‘think like a man’. We are able, and more than willing, to separate our emotions from our sexual encounters, so don’t be pissed when after a night of the best sex you’ve ever had, we thank you, hand you your boxers, and kindly say goodbye. It’s nothing personal, it’s just that we’d quite like to dip our hands in a few other honey pots, especially as now it isn’t so frowned upon for women to do so.
In this day and age, I think people in general shouldn’t be naïve enough to assume that if someone decides to sleep with you that it’s because they’re giving themselves to you. More often than not, they just want to ‘get some’ and get out. You should be honest with your intentions from the get go, this way both parties avoid disappointment or embarrassment.
There’s nothing worse than hearing the words “do you want to go for dinner” coming from the person you thought you had a ‘fuck buddy’ agreement with. It never ends well. You begin dating, before long you’re arguing and having the normal domestics that couples have, you fall out, and before you know it you’re having to search for another ‘no strings attached’ friend.
Personally if I think a guy has got the wrong end of the stick, I let him know the deal as soon as possible; like hell I’m losing a good fuck over a little misunderstanding!
The Wandering Angel 